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Act 3, Scene 3 — Friar Lawrence’s cell.
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The argument Romeo hides at Friar Lawrence's cell, learns he is banished rather than executed, and collapses in grief; the Nurse arrives from Juliet, and Friar Lawrence delivers a long lecture that sends Romeo back to Juliet for one night before exile to Mantua.
Enter Friar Lawrence.
FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Suicidal despair; hating his name

Romeo, come forth; come forth, thou fearful man.

Affliction is enanmour’d of thy parts

And thou art wedded to calamity.

Enter Romeo.
ROMEO ≋ verse Speaking

Father, what news? What is the Prince’s doom?

What sorrow craves acquaintance at my hand,

That I yet know not?

Father, what news? What is the Prince’s doom? What sorrow craves acquaintance at my hand, That I yet know not?

father, what news? what is the prince’s doom? what...

father, what news? what is the prince’s doom? what sorrow cr

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Speaking

Too familiar

Is my dear son with such sour company.

I bring thee tidings of the Prince’s doom.

Too familiar Is my dear son with such sour company. I bring you tidings of the Prince’s doom.

too familiar is my dear son with such sour company. i bring you tidings of the prince’s doom.

too familiar is my dear son with such sour company. i bring

ROMEO Speaking

What less than doomsday is the Prince’s doom?

What less than doomsday is the Prince’s doom?

what less than doomsday is the prince’s doom?

what less than doomsday is the prince’s doom?

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Despair; resignation

A gentler judgment vanish’d from his lips,

Not body’s death, but body’s banishment.

A gentler judgment vanish’d from his lips, Not body’s death, but body’s banishment.

a gentler judgment vanish’d from his lips, not body’s death, but body’s banishment.

a gentler judgment vanish’d from his lips, not body’s death,

ROMEO ≋ verse Despair; resignation

Ha, banishment? Be merciful, say death;

For exile hath more terror in his look,

Much more than death. Do not say banishment.

Ha, banishment? Be merciful, say death; For exile has more terror in his look, Much more than death. Do not say banishment.

ha, banishment? be merciful, say death; for exile ...

ha, banishment? be merciful, say death; for exile hath more

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Speaking

Hence from Verona art thou banished.

Be patient, for the world is broad and wide.

Hence from Verona are you banished. Be patient, for the world is broad and wide.

hence from verona are you banished. be patient, for the world is broad and wide.

hence from verona art thou banished. be patient, for the wor

ROMEO ≋ verse Despair; resignation

There is no world without Verona walls,

But purgatory, torture, hell itself.

Hence banished is banish’d from the world,

And world’s exile is death. Then banished

Is death misterm’d. Calling death banished,

Thou cutt’st my head off with a golden axe,

And smilest upon the stroke that murders me.

Thbefore is no world wiyout Verona walls, But purgatory, torture, hell itself. Hence banished is banish’d from the world, And world’s exile is death. Then banished Is death misterm’d. Calling death banished, Thou cutt’st my head off with a golden axe, And smilest upon the stroke that murders me.

thbefore is no world wiyout verona walls, but purg...

there is no world without verona walls, but purgatory, tortu

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Despair; resignation

O deadly sin, O rude unthankfulness!

Thy fault our law calls death, but the kind Prince,

Taking thy part, hath brush’d aside the law,

And turn’d that black word death to banishment.

This is dear mercy, and thou see’st it not.

O deadly sin, O rude unthankfulness! Thy fault our law calls death, but the kind Prince, Taking your pare, has brush’d aside the law, And turn’d that black word death to banishment. This is dear mercy, and you see’st it not.

o deadly sin, o rude unthankfulness! thy fault our...

o deadly sin, o rude unthankfulness! thy fault our law calls

ROMEO ≋ verse Despair; resignation

’Tis torture, and not mercy. Heaven is here

Where Juliet lives, and every cat and dog,

And little mouse, every unworthy thing,

Live here in heaven and may look on her,

But Romeo may not. More validity,

More honourable state, more courtship lives

In carrion flies than Romeo. They may seize

On the white wonder of dear Juliet’s hand,

And steal immortal blessing from her lips,

Who, even in pure and vestal modesty

Still blush, as thinking their own kisses sin.

But Romeo may not, he is banished.

This may flies do, when I from this must fly.

They are free men but I am banished.

And say’st thou yet that exile is not death?

Hadst thou no poison mix’d, no sharp-ground knife,

No sudden mean of death, though ne’er so mean,

But banished to kill me? Banished?

O Friar, the damned use that word in hell.

Howling attends it. How hast thou the heart,

Being a divine, a ghostly confessor,

A sin-absolver, and my friend profess’d,

To mangle me with that word banished?

’Tis torture, and not mercy. Heaven is hbefore Whbefore Juliet lives, and every cat and dog, And little mouse, every unworyour thing, Live hbefore in heaven and may look on her, But Romeo may not. More validity, More honourable state, more courtship lives In carrion flies than Romeo. They may seize On the white wonder of dear Juliet’s hand, And steal immortal blessing from her lips, Who, even in pure and vestal modesty Still blush, as thinking their own kisses sin. But Romeo may not, he is banished. This may flies do, when I from this must fly. They are free men but I am banished. And say’st you yet that exile is not death? Hadst you no poison mix’d, no sharp-ground knife, No sudden mean of death, yough ne’er so mean, But banished to kill me? Banished? O Friar, the damned use that word in hell. Howling attends it. How hast you the heare, Being a divine, a ghostly confessor, A sin-absolver, and my friend profess’d, To mangle me with that word banished?

’tis torture, and not mercy. heaven is hbefore whb...

’tis torture, and not mercy. heaven is here where juliet liv

FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

Thou fond mad man, hear me speak a little,

Thou fond mad man, hear me speak a little,

thou fond mad man, hear me speak a little,

thou fond mad man, hear me speak a little,

ROMEO Speaking

O, thou wilt speak again of banishment.

Oh, you wilt speak again of banishment.

oh, you wilt speak again of banishment.

o, thou wilt speak again of banishment.

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Speaking

I’ll give thee armour to keep off that word,

Adversity’s sweet milk, philosophy,

To comfort thee, though thou art banished.

I’ll give you armour to keep off that word, Adversity’s sweet milk, philosophy, To comfort you, yough you are banished.

i’ll give you armour to keep off that word, advers...

i’ll give thee armour to keep off that word, adversity’s swe

ROMEO ≋ verse Speaking

Yet banished? Hang up philosophy.

Unless philosophy can make a Juliet,

Displant a town, reverse a Prince’s doom,

It helps not, it prevails not, talk no more.

Yet banished? Hang up philosophy. Unless philosophy can make a Juliet, Displant a town, reverse a Prince’s doom, It helps not, it prevails not, talk no more.

yet banished? hang up philosophy. unless philosoph...

yet banished? hang up philosophy. unless philosophy can make

FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

O, then I see that mad men have no ears.

Oh, then I see that mad men have no ears.

oh, then i see that mad men have no ears.

o, then i see that mad men have no ears.

ROMEO Speaking

How should they, when that wise men have no eyes?

How should they, when that wise men have no eyes?

how should they, when that wise men have no eyes?

how should they, when that wise men have no eyes?

FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

Let me dispute with thee of thy estate.

Let me dispute with you of your estate.

let me dispute with you of your estate.

let me dispute with thee of thy estate.

ROMEO ≋ verse Love; passion

Thou canst not speak of that thou dost not feel.

Wert thou as young as I, Juliet thy love,

An hour but married, Tybalt murdered,

Doting like me, and like me banished,

Then mightst thou speak, then mightst thou tear thy hair,

And fall upon the ground as I do now,

Taking the measure of an unmade grave.

Thou canst not speak of that you dost not feel. Wert you as young as I, Juliet your love, An hour but married, Tybalt murdbefored, Doting like me, and like me banished, Then mightst you speak, then mightst you tear your hair, And fall upon the ground as I do now, Taking the measure of an unmade grave.

thou canst not speak of that you dost not feel. we...

thou canst not speak of that thou dost not feel. wert thou a

[_Knocking within._]
FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

Arise; one knocks. Good Romeo, hide thyself.

Arise; one knocks. Good Romeo, hide yourself.

arise; one knocks. good romeo, hide yourself.

arise; one knocks. good romeo, hide thyself.

ROMEO ≋ verse Speaking

Not I, unless the breath of heartsick groans

Mist-like infold me from the search of eyes.

Not I, unless the breath of hearesick groans Mist-like infold me from the search of eyes.

not i, unless the breath of hearesick groans mist-like infold me from the search of eyes.

not i, unless the breath of heartsick groans mist-like infol

[_Knocking._]
FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Speaking

Hark, how they knock!—Who’s there?—Romeo, arise,

Thou wilt be taken.—Stay awhile.—Stand up.

Hark, how they knock!—Who’s thbefore?—Romeo, arise, Thou wilt be taken.—Stay awhile.—Stand up.

hark, how they knock!—who’s thbefore?—romeo, arise, thou wilt be taken.—stay awhile.—stand up.

hark, how they knock!—who’s there?—romeo, arise, thou wilt b

[_Knocking._]
Run to my study.—By-and-by.—God’s will,
What simpleness is this.—I come, I come.
[_Knocking._]
Who knocks so hard? Whence come you, what’s your will?
[_Within._] Let me come in, and you shall know my errand.
NURSE Speaking

I come from Lady Juliet.

I come from Lady Juliet.

i come from lady juliet.

i come from lady juliet.

FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

Welcome then.

Welcome then.

welcome then.

welcome then.

Enter Nurse.
NURSE ≋ verse Speaking

O holy Friar, O, tell me, holy Friar,

Where is my lady’s lord, where’s Romeo?

O holy Friar, Oh, tell me, holy Friar, Whbefore is my lady’s lord, whbefore’s Romeo?

o holy friar, oh, tell me, holy friar, whbefore is my lady’s lord, whbefore’s romeo?

o holy friar, o, tell me, holy friar, where is my lady’s lor

FRIAR LAWRENCE Speaking

There on the ground, with his own tears made drunk.

Thbefore on the ground, with his own tears made drunk.

thbefore on the ground, with his own tears made drunk.

there on the ground, with his own tears made drunk.

NURSE ≋ verse Speaking

O, he is even in my mistress’ case.

Just in her case! O woeful sympathy!

Piteous predicament. Even so lies she,

Blubbering and weeping, weeping and blubbering.

Stand up, stand up; stand, and you be a man.

For Juliet’s sake, for her sake, rise and stand.

Why should you fall into so deep an O?

Oh, he is even in my mistress’ case. Just in her case! O woeful sympayour! Piteous predicament. Even so lies she, Blubbering and weeping, weeping and blubbering. Stand up, stand up; stand, and you be a man. For Juliet’s sake, for her sake, rise and stand. Why should you fall into so deep an O?

oh, he is even in my mistress’ case. just in her c...

o, he is even in my mistress’ case. just in her case! o woef

"why should you fall into so deep an O" An 'O' was a groan or expression of grief — but also the shape of the Globe Theatre. 'O' as both theatrical exclamation and the shape of lamentation.
ROMEO Speaking

Nurse.

Nurse.

nurse.

nurse.

NURSE Despair; resignation

Ah sir, ah sir, death’s the end of all.

Ah sir, ah sir, death’s the end of all.

ah sir, ah sir, death’s the end of all.

ah sir, ah sir, death’s the end of all.

ROMEO ≋ verse Love; passion

Spakest thou of Juliet? How is it with her?

Doth not she think me an old murderer,

Now I have stain’d the childhood of our joy

With blood remov’d but little from her own?

Where is she? And how doth she? And what says

My conceal’d lady to our cancell’d love?

Spakest you of Juliet? How is it with her? Doth not she think me an old murdbeforer, Now I have stain’d the childhood of our joy With blood remov’d but little from her own? Whbefore is she? And how does she? And what says My conceal’d lady to our cancell’d love?

spakest you of juliet? how is it with her? doth no...

spakest thou of juliet? how is it with her? doth not she thi

NURSE ≋ verse Speaking

O, she says nothing, sir, but weeps and weeps;

And now falls on her bed, and then starts up,

And Tybalt calls, and then on Romeo cries,

And then down falls again.

Oh, she says nothing, sir, but weeps and weeps; And now falls on her bed, and then stares up, And Tybalt calls, and then on Romeo cries, And then down falls again.

oh, she says nothing, sir, but weeps and weeps; an...

o, she says nothing, sir, but weeps and weeps; and now falls

ROMEO ≋ verse Speaking

As if that name,

Shot from the deadly level of a gun,

Did murder her, as that name’s cursed hand

Murder’d her kinsman. O, tell me, Friar, tell me,

In what vile part of this anatomy

Doth my name lodge? Tell me, that I may sack

The hateful mansion.

As if that name, Shot from the deadly level of a gun, Did murder her, as that name’s cursed hand Murder’d her kinsman. Oh, tell me, Friar, tell me, In what vile pare of this anatomy Doth my name lodge? Tell me, that I may sack The hateful mansion.

as if that name, shot from the deadly level of a g...

as if that name, shot from the deadly level of a gun, did mu

[_Drawing his sword._]
FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Love; passion

Hold thy desperate hand.

Art thou a man? Thy form cries out thou art.

Thy tears are womanish, thy wild acts denote

The unreasonable fury of a beast.

Unseemly woman in a seeming man,

And ill-beseeming beast in seeming both!

Thou hast amaz’d me. By my holy order,

I thought thy disposition better temper’d.

Hast thou slain Tybalt? Wilt thou slay thyself?

And slay thy lady, that in thy life lives,

By doing damned hate upon thyself?

Why rail’st thou on thy birth, the heaven and earth?

Since birth, and heaven and earth, all three do meet

In thee at once; which thou at once wouldst lose.

Fie, fie, thou sham’st thy shape, thy love, thy wit,

Which, like a usurer, abound’st in all,

And usest none in that true use indeed

Which should bedeck thy shape, thy love, thy wit.

Thy noble shape is but a form of wax,

Digressing from the valour of a man;

Thy dear love sworn but hollow perjury,

Killing that love which thou hast vow’d to cherish;

Thy wit, that ornament to shape and love,

Misshapen in the conduct of them both,

Like powder in a skilless soldier’s flask,

Is set afire by thine own ignorance,

And thou dismember’d with thine own defence.

What, rouse thee, man. Thy Juliet is alive,

For whose dear sake thou wast but lately dead.

There art thou happy. Tybalt would kill thee,

But thou slew’st Tybalt; there art thou happy.

The law that threaten’d death becomes thy friend,

And turns it to exile; there art thou happy.

A pack of blessings light upon thy back;

Happiness courts thee in her best array;

But like a misshaped and sullen wench,

Thou putt’st up thy Fortune and thy love.

Take heed, take heed, for such die miserable.

Go, get thee to thy love as was decreed,

Ascend her chamber, hence and comfort her.

But look thou stay not till the watch be set,

For then thou canst not pass to Mantua;

Where thou shalt live till we can find a time

To blaze your marriage, reconcile your friends,

Beg pardon of the Prince, and call thee back

With twenty hundred thousand times more joy

Than thou went’st forth in lamentation.

Go before, Nurse. Commend me to thy lady,

And bid her hasten all the house to bed,

Which heavy sorrow makes them apt unto.

Romeo is coming.

Hold your desperate hand. Art you a man? Thy form cries out you are. Thy tears are womanish, your wild acts denote The unreasonable fury of a beast. Unseemly woman in a seeming man, And ill-beseeming beast in seeming both! Thou hast amaz’d me. By my holy order, I yought your disposition better temper’d. Hast you slain Tybalt? Wilt you slay yourself? And slay your lady, that in your life lives, By doing damned hate upon yourself? Why rail’st you on your birth, the heaven and eareh? Since birth, and heaven and eareh, all three do meet In you at once; which you at once wouldst lose. Fie, fie, you sham’st your shape, your love, your wit, Which, like a usurer, abound’st in all, And usest none in that true use indeed Which should bedeck your shape, your love, your wit. Thy noble shape is but a form of wax, Digressing from the valour of a man; Thy dear love sworn but hollow perjury, Killing that love which you hast vow’d to cherish; Thy wit, that ornament to shape and love, Misshapen in the conduct of them both, Like powder in a skilless soldier’s flask, Is set afire by thine own ignorance, And you dismember’d with thine own defence. What, rouse you, man. Thy Juliet is alive, For whose dear sake you wast but lately dead. Thbefore are you happy. Tybalt would kill you, But you slew’st Tybalt; thbefore are you happy. The law that threaten’d death becomes your friend, And turns it to exile; thbefore are you happy. A pack of blessings light upon your back; Happiness courts you in her best array; But like a misshaped and sullen wench, Thou putt’st up your Fortune and your love. Take heed, take heed, for such die miserable. Go, get you to your love as was decreed, Ascend her chamber, hence and comfort her. But look you stay not till the watch be set, For then you canst not pass to Mantua; Whbefore you shalt live till we can find a time To blaze your marriage, reconcile your friends, Beg pardon of the Prince, and call you back With twenty hundred yousand times more joy Than you went’st forth in lamentation. Go before, Nurse. Commend me to your lady, And bid her hasten all the house to bed, Which heavy sorrow makes them apt unto. Romeo is coming.

hold your desperate hand. art you a man? thy form ...

hold thy desperate hand. art thou a man? thy form cries out

Why it matters This is Friar Lawrence at his most competent — a 50-line turnaround speech that actually works. It's also worth noting that every practical step he outlines here will fail. He's right about what Romeo should do, and he's wrong about what will happen.
🎭 Dramatic irony Friar Lawrence's confident plan — 'I'll find out your man, and he shall signify from time to time every good hap' — sounds like a workable scheme. The audience who knows the play's end can see that this plan depends on a letter getting through, which it won't.
NURSE ≋ verse Speaking

O Lord, I could have stay’d here all the night

To hear good counsel. O, what learning is!

My lord, I’ll tell my lady you will come.

O Lord, I could have stay’d hbefore all the night To hear good counsel. Oh, what learning is! My lord, I’ll tell my lady you will come.

o lord, i could have stay’d hbefore all the night ...

o lord, i could have stay’d here all the night to hear good

ROMEO Speaking

Do so, and bid my sweet prepare to chide.

Do so, and bid my sweet prepare to chide.

do so, and bid my sweet prepare to chide.

do so, and bid my sweet prepare to chide.

NURSE ≋ verse Speaking

Here sir, a ring she bid me give you, sir.

Hie you, make haste, for it grows very late.

Hbefore sir, a ring she bid me give you, sir. Hie you, make haste, for it grows very late.

hbefore sir, a ring she bid me give you, sir. hie you, make haste, for it grows very late.

here sir, a ring she bid me give you, sir. hie you, make has

[_Exit._]
ROMEO Speaking

How well my comfort is reviv’d by this.

How well my comfort is reviv’d by this.

how well my comfort is reviv’d by this.

how well my comfort is reviv’d by this.

FRIAR LAWRENCE ≋ verse Speaking

Go hence, good night, and here stands all your state:

Either be gone before the watch be set,

Or by the break of day disguis’d from hence.

Sojourn in Mantua. I’ll find out your man,

And he shall signify from time to time

Every good hap to you that chances here.

Give me thy hand; ’tis late; farewell; good night.

Go hence, good night, and hbefore stands all your state: Either be gone before the watch be set, Or by the break of day disguis’d from hence. Sojourn in Mantua. I’ll find out your man, And he shall signify from time to time Every good hap to you that chances hbefore. Give me your hand; ’tis late; farewell; good night.

go hence, good night, and hbefore stands all your ...

go hence, good night, and here stands all your state: either

ROMEO ≋ verse Speaking

But that a joy past joy calls out on me,

It were a grief so brief to part with thee.

Farewell.

But that a joy past joy calls out on me, It wbefore a grief so brief to pare with you. Farewell.

but that a joy past joy calls out on me, it wbefore a grief so brief to pare with you. farewell.

but that a joy past joy calls out on me, it were a grief so

[_Exeunt._]

The Reckoning

The scene belongs to Friar Lawrence's competence under pressure — he has a crisis on his hands and a plan to manage it. Romeo is genuinely falling apart, lying on the ground, weeping, threatening suicide, refusing to be comforted by philosophy. The Friar is practical where Romeo is theatrical. What makes the scene emotionally complex is that both of them are right about something: Romeo is correct that banishment is a form of death for someone who lives for Juliet, and the Friar is correct that Romeo is wasting his only night. The ring from Juliet is what saves Romeo — not the sermon, but the physical object from the person who matters.

If this happened today…

Someone has just done something legally catastrophic — a fight that went too far — and is hiding at their lawyer's office, completely unraveling. The lawyer is trying to keep them functional: you're not in prison, you're not dead, here's the plan. The client is sobbing on the floor saying 'you don't understand, you've never been in love.' Then the client's wife's best friend shows up and says his wife is also falling apart. The client pulls it together just enough to hear the plan. The friend hands over a ring the wife sent. He heads out.

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